parivar di madad layi | maape
bache atey smart phone—bhaag 1: kee mere bache kol smart phone hona chaheeda hai?
ajj ziadatar bache smart phone * vartde han atey ihna vicho bahut jane ikkalya vich phone ’te internet chalaunde han. je tusi apne bache nu smart phone dinde ho, taa is nu vartan de kehrre khatre han? is de kee faide han? tuhanu apne bache nu har roz kinni der phone vartan dena chaheeda hai?
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai?
faide
bachya di surakhya atey maapya nu mann di shanti. do naujavan bachya di maa bethani kehndi hai: “asi khatarnak duniya vich rehnde ha. is layi bachya kol phone hona zaroori hai taaki maape ohna naal gall kar sakan.”
kaithreen naa di ik aurat kehndi hai: “phone diya kujh aepas de zariye tusi dekh sakde ho ki tuhade bache kithe han. je tuhada bacha gaddi chala reha hai, taa tusi eh vi dekh sakde ho ki oh kinni ku tez gaddi chala reha hai.”
school da kamm karan vich madad. merry naa di ik aurat kehndi hai: “bachya nu school da kamm email ja message raahi milda hai. nale phone raahi bache apne adhyaapka naal gall kar sakde han.”
khatre
haddo vadh phone di varto. naujavan har roz kayi-kayi ghante phone ’te lagge rehnde han. darasal, maape jinna sama apne phone vagaira ’te laaunde han, unna sama hi oh apne bachya naal gall karan ’te laaunde han. ik salahkar kehnda hai ki kayi gharaa vich “parivar de member ajnabiya vang rehnde han atey oh sirf phone ’te hi gall karde han.” *
pornography. andaza laya gaya hai ki adhe to ziada naujavan har mahine pornography dekhan layi saeeta labhde han. is vich koi hairani di gall nahi hai kyoki smart phone raahi pornography dekhni bahut saukhi hai. do naujavana da pita william kehnda hai: “jado maape apne bachya nu phone rakhan di ijazat dinde han, taa oh apne bachya layi raah khol dinde han ki oh jithe marzi pornography dekh sakde han.”
phone di lat. bahut sare lok apne phone to bina nahi reh sakde. je ohna da phone kite idhar-udhar ho jave, taa oh pareshan ho jande han, ohna nu tarlo-machhi lagg jandi hai atey ohna nu laggda hai ki oh bimar ho gaye han. kujh maape kehnde han ki je ohna de bachya nu odo bulaya jave jado oh phone vart rahe hunde han, taa oh rukhe tareeke naal pesh aaunde han. carmen kehndi hai, “kadi-kadayi jado mai apne munde naal gall karna chahundi ha, taa oh muh banaa lainda hai ja mainu tutt ke painda hai. oh nahi chahunda ki jado oh phone vart reha hove, taa koi oh nu bulave.”
hor khatre. smart phone ’te internet raahi tang karan atey ashleel message, photoa ja video bhejan da khatra vadh janda hai. nale galat tareeke naal baithan atey neend di kami karke bahut sariya sehat samassyaava ho sakdiya han. kujh naujavan “ghost app” vartde han. idda laggda hai ki oh kailkooletar vagaira vart rahe han. par is app raahi naujavan apne maapya to oh galla luko sakde han jo oh nahi chahunde ki maapya nu pata laggan.
ik naujavan kudi da pita daneel kehnda hai: “smart phone har changi te buri cheez layi raah kholda hai jo internet ’te payi gayi hai.”
tuhanu kee puchhna chaheeda hai?
‘kee mere bache nu smart phone di lorr hai?’
bible kehndi hai: “hushyaar insaan har kadam soch-samajh ke chukkda hai.” (kahauta 14:15) eh gall mann vich rakhdya apne aap to puchho:
‘kee surakhya ja hor kaarna karke mere bache kol smart phone hona chaheeda hai? kee mai phone rakhan de faidya te nuksan bare sochya hai? kee smart phone to ilava koi hor rasta hai?’
taad naa da pita kehnda hai: “smart phone to ilava vi phone han jinha raahi tusi apne bachya nu phone ja message kar sakde ho. is naal tuhada kaafi paisa vi bachega.”
‘kee mera bacha smart phone rakhan layi tyaar hai?’
bible kehndi hai: “budhiman da dil os nu sahi raah paunda hai.” (updeshak di kitab 10:2) eh gall mann vich rakhdya apne aap to puchho:
‘kehrri gall to mainu pata laggda hai ki mera bacha bharose de layak hai? kee oh mere naal khull ke gall karda hai? kee oh mere to kujh galla lukaunda hai, jive os de dost kaun han? kee os nu pehla hi pata hai ki ti.vi, tablet te laptop vartdya apne ’te kaabu kive rakhna hai?’ sareena naa di maa kehndi hai: “smart phone de faide taa han, par nuksan vi han. zara socho ki tusi chhoti umar vich apne bache nu kinni vaddi zimmevari de rahe ho.”
‘kee mai apne bache nu smart phone den layi tyaar ha?’
bible kehndi hai: “munde nu oh raah sikha jis raah os nu jana chaheeda hai.” (kahauta 22:6, footnote) eh gall mann vich rakhdya apne aap to puchho:
‘kee mainu phone bare inni ku jaankari hai ki mai apne bache nu is de nuksan bare dass saka? kee mai jaanda ha ki mai apne bache nu phone ’te kinna sama bitaun atey kee-kee dekhan di ijazat devanga? mai phone di sahi varto karan vich apne bache di kive madad karanga?’ daneel naa da pita, jis da pehla zikar keeta gaya si, dassda hai: “mai dekhya hai ki bahut sare maape apne bachya de hatha vich phone farra dinde han, par eh nahi dekhde ki ohna de bache phone ’te kee dekh rahe han.”
mukh gall: bachya nu phone di sahi tareeke naal varto karan di sikhlayi dyo. ik kitab dassdi hai: “ziadatar bache phone, tablet vagaira ’te ziada sama laun de fande to bach nahi paunde. khaas karke odo jado maapya nu pata nahi hunda ki ohna de bache fona ’te kee kar rahe han ja ohna nu koi salah nahi dinde.”