parivar di madad layi
vadiya number liaaun vich bache di madad kive kariye?
laggda hai ki tuhade bache nu na taa school jana pasand hai atey na hi oh parhda te school da kamm karda hai. is da natija kee nikalda hai? os de papera vicho ghatt number aaun lagg painde han atey os da ravaiya hor vi kharab ho janda hai. tusi apne bache di vadiya number liaaun vich kive madad kar sakde ho?
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda?
dabaa karke samassya vadh-di hai. bache ’te dabaa paaun karke os nu school te ghar vich chinta hi rahegi. chinta ghataun layi oh shayad jhooth bole, apne number na dasse, apne report card ’te khud dastkhat kar lave ja school jaan di bajaye kite hor jave. dabaa paaun naal samassya sirf vadhegi.
inaam paaun di ichha da ulta asar pai sakda hai. andrew naa da pita dassda hai: “apni dhee nu hallasheri den layi asi vadiya number aaun ’te os nu inaam dinde si. par is karke os da dhyaan sirf inaam ’te lagg janda si. ghatt number aaun ’te os nu is gall da dukh nahi hunda si ki os de number ghatt aaye han, sago is gall da ziada dukh hunda si ki os nu inaam nahi milya.”
adhyaapka ’te dosh laun karke tuhade bache nu faida nahi hovega. tuhada bacha shayad eh soche ki vadiya number liaaun layi mehnat karan di lorr nahi hai. oh shayad apnia galtiya da dosh doojya ’te madana sikh lave atey doojya to umeed rakhe ki oh os diya mushkla hall karan. thode shabda vich keha jave, taa tuhada bacha eh gall sikhan to vanjha reh javega ki apne kamma de natijya di zimmevari apne sir laini chaheedi hai.
tusi kee kar sakde ho?
apnia bhavnava ’te kaabu rakho. je tuhanu gussa charhya hoya hai, taa os same apne bache naal numbera bare gall na karo. brait naa da pita dassda hai: “jado mai te meri patni shant ho ke te pyaar naal gall karde ha, taa faida hunda hai.”
bible da asool: “har koi sunan layi tyaar rahe, bolan vich kahli na kare atey jaldi gussa na kare.”—yakoob 1:19.
samassya di jarrh pachhano. ghatt number aaun de aam kaaran han, dooje vidyaarthiya vallo daraya-dhamkaya jana, hor school vich dakhla laina, papera di tension, parivar de masle, neend poori na honi, sahi schedule na hona ja dhyaan la ke na parhna. eh na socho ki tuhada bacha nalaik hai.
bible da asool: “jehrra bachan utte chitt laaunda hai oh da bhala hovega.”—kahauta 16:20.
parhayi layi shant mahaul banao. school da kamm karan te parhan layi schedule banao. parhayi karan layi idda di jagah honi chaheedi hai jithe tuhada bacha bina dhyaan bhatkaye (television atey mobile vi shamal han) apna school da kamm kar sake. school da kamm karan layi thoda-thoda sama rakho taaki bacha dhyaan naal kamm kar sake. germany to hector naa da pita kehnda hai: “je bache da koi test hona hunda hai, taa test di tyaari aakhri same tak latkaun di bajaye asi os nu har din thoda-thoda parhaunde ha.”
bible da asool: “harek kamm da ik sama hai.”—updeshak di pothi 3:1.
sikhan di hallasheri dyo. jinni ziada bache nu eh gall samajh laggegi ki hun school jaan da os nu kinna faida hunda hai, unna ziada oh sikhan layi prerit hovega. misal layi, ganit di parhayi karan karke oh apne jeb kharche da hisab-kitab rakh sakda hai.
bible da asool: “budh nu prapat kar, samajh nu vi prapat kar . . . oh di vadiayi kar.”—kahauta 4:5, 8.
sujhaa: school da kamm karan vich bache di madad karo, par aap os da kamm na karo. andrew mannda hai: “saddi dhee school da kamm aap karan di bajaye eh umeed rakhdi si ki asi os da kamm kar devange.” bache nu khud apna school da kamm karna sikhao.