naujavan puchhde han
bor hon te mai kee karaa?
meeh vale din je gharo bahar nikalna mushkal hove ja karan layi koi kamm na hove, taa kujh lok bechain ho jande han. robert naa da naujavan kehnda hai: “idda de time te mai bas baitha rehnda ha atey mainu pata hi nahi laggda ki mai karaa kee.”
kee tuhanu vi kade idda lagga hai? je ha, taa eh lekh tuhadi madad karega ki idda de halaat dauran tusi kee kar sakde ho taaki tusi bor na hovo.
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai?
phone ja tablet shayad kamm na aaun.
apna sama bitaun da ik tareeka hai, internet chalauna. je tusi 24 ghante internet hi chalaunde rahoge, taa tusi kujh vi nava karan bare nahi sochoge atey kujh same baad bor ho jaoge. 21 saal da jarmi kehnda hai, “tuhanu idda laggega jive tusi bina soche-samjhe bas screen dekhi ja rahe ho.”
elena naa di ik kudi nu vi idda hi laggda hai. oh kehndi hai, “asi kujh same tak hi sirf tablet ja phone da istemal kar sakde ha. je asi 24 ghante is naal hi chimbrre rahange, taa sanu pata hi nahi laggega ki sadde aale-duaale kee ho reha hai. is layi phone ja tablet band karan to baad asi pehla nalo kite ziada bor ho javange.”
sahi nazria rakhna zaroori hai.
bor hon to bachan layi bahut sara kamm karna hi kaafi nahi hai, sago tuhanu har kamm mann la ke karna chaheeda hai. misal layi, kairan naa di kudi apne school de dina nu yaad kardi hoi kehndi hai, “school vich mere kol karan layi dher sara kamm hunda si, par fir vi mai bor ho jandi si kyoki mai koi vi kamm mann la ke nahi kardi si. je tusi bor nahi hona chahunde, taa har kamm mann la ke karo.”
kee tusi jaande si? khali sama vehle baithan layi nahi, sago kujh nava sikhan layi hunda hai. khali sama upjaoo mitti varga hai jis vich kujh nava ugg sakda hai. tusi same da sahi istemal kar ke kujh nava sikh sakde ho.
jis tarha upjaoo mitti vich kujh nava ugg sakda hai, ose tarha khali same vich tusi kujh nava sikh sakde ho
tusi kee kar sakde ho?
kujh nava karo. nave dost banao, kujh nava sikho atey naviya-naviya cheeza bare jaankari lo. jehrre lok naviya-naviya cheeza nu sikhan vich dilchaspi lainde han, oh na taa khud bor hunde han atey na hi doojya nu bor karde han.
bible da asool: “jo vi kamm tere hath laggda hai, os nu poora zor la ke kar.”—updeshak di kitab 9:10.
“mai haal hi vich cheeni mandarin bhasha sikhni shuru keeti hai. har din is di practise karan naal mainu ehsas hoya ki kaash mai bahut pehla hi apna dimag idda de kamma vich laya hunda. mainu eh bhasha sikhan vich bahut maza aaunda hai. hun mera sara dhyaan is vich lagga rehnda hai atey mai apne same da sahi istemal kar pa rehi ha.”—melinda.
socho ki tusi koi kamm kyo kar rahe ho. jado tusi sochoge ki tusi koi kamm kyo kar rahe ho atey tuhanu eh kamm karan da kee faida hovega, taa tuhanu eh kamm karan vich maza aavega. itho tak ki school da kamm kardya vi tusi bor nahi hovoge.
bible da asool: “insaan layi is nalo changa hor kujh nahi ki oh . . . khushi-khushi mehnat kare.”—updeshak di kitab 2:24.
“papera to pehla mai kujh vi nahi si parhya. is layi mai roz 8 ghante parhdi si. inni parhayi karan de bavjood vi mai bor nahi hoi kyoki mai apne mann vich pakka dhaar lya si ki mai papera vicho zaroor paas hona hai. is layi mai mehnat karna chahundi si.”—hannah.
tusi jo nahi kar sakde, os bare soch-soch ke pareshan na hovo. kujh kamm bahut mazedar hunde han, par ihna de kujh pehlu tuhanu bor kar sakde han. idda hon te pareshan na hovo. shayad tusi atey tuhade kujh dosta ne ikatthe mil ke kujh karan da plan banaya hove, par achanak tuhade dost oh plan cancel kar dinde han. is layi tuhade kol karan layi kujh nahi hunda. idda hon te udaas na hovo, sago khush raho.
bible da asool: “khushdil insaan hamesha daavta da maza lainda hai.”—kahauta 15:15.
“meri ik saheli ne mainu keha ki mai ikkale hundya vi khush rehna sikha. sanu sirf doosrya naal hi nahi, sago ikkalya vi sama bitauna chaheeda hai. sanu sarya nu idda karna sikhna chaheeda hai kyoki eh zindagi vich bahut kamm aaunda hai.”—ivy.
