hetha ditte shabd dekho atey fir agge ditte savaala de javab dyo.

1.  1. filma, ti. vi. atey rasalya vich aksar naujavan mundya nu kis tarha de dikhaya janda hai?

2.  2. tusi kee chahoge ki lokaa vich tuhadi keho jehi pachhaan bane?

 laggda hai ki tusi pehle savaal da javab dabbi 1 vicho dyoge atey dooje savaal da javab dabbi 2 vicho dyoge. je ha, taa vadiya. par kyo? kyoki tusi media vich dikhaye jande naujavana varge nahi ho te na hi ohna varge ban-na chahunde ho. gaur karo ki kyo.

•   media vich aksar aadmiya nu hinsak atey baagi dikhaya janda hai. ik kitab dassdi hai ki ti. vi., filma atey kheda vich is tarha dikhaya janda hai ki mashhoor aadmi ‘takatvar atey gussekhor hunde han. kehen da matlab hai ki je asi chahunde ha ki dooje sadde naal dosti karan, taa sanu takatvar te baagi hona chaheeda hai.’

   zara socho: kee gussekhor hon karke tusi vadiya dost, sehkarmi ja pati bann sakoge? jado tuhanu gussa charhaya janda hai, taa kee karan layi ziada takat di lorr hai: gussa dikhaun layi ja is te kaabu paaun layi? kis gall to pata laggega ki tusi samajhdar ho?

   bible dassdi hai: “jehrra krodh vich dheema hai oh soorbeer nalo, atey apni rooh nu vass vich rakhan vala, sheher de jittan vale nalo changa hai.”​—kahauta 16:32.

•   media vich aadmiya nu dikhaya janda hai ki oh sex layi paagal han. 17 saala da kris kehnda hai: “filma atey ti. vi. vich dikhaya janda hai ki munde kappdya nalo ziada apnia saheliya badalde han.” 18 saala da gairi is to vaddi gall kehnda hai: “filma atey ti. vi. vich dikhaye jande munde sex karan layi paagal hunde han.” misal layi, kujh filma vich dikhaya janda hai ki mundya di zindagi da maksad sirf khana-peena, mauj-masti atey sex karna hi hunda hai.

   zara socho: kee tusi chahunde ho ki tuhadi pachhaan ihna mundya vargi bane? kee samajhdar aadmi aurta nu sirf apni havas poori karan di hi cheez samajhda hai ja kee oh ohna naal aadar naal pesh aaunda hai?

   bible dassdi hai: “tuhade vicho harek jane nu pata hona chaheeda hai ki pavittarta atey aadaryog tareeke naal apne sareer nu kive kaabu vich rakhna hai, na ki kaam-vashna de lalach naal.”​—1 thassluneekiya 4:4, 5.

•   media vich mundya nu gair-zimmevar dikhaya janda hai. bahut sariya mashhoor filma atey ti. vi. programa vich naujavan mundya nu aksar aalsi atey nalaik dikhaya janda hai. ise karke shayad kujh aadmi naujavan mundya di kabliyat te ghatt hi itbar karan. pehla zikar keeta gaya gairi kehnda hai: “jado mai 16 saala da hoya, taa mai dekhya ki mainu kamm nahi mil reha kyoki mere ilake vich malak sirf aurta nu kamm te rakhna chahunde san. ohna nu laggda si ki sare naujavan munde gair-zimmevar ja beitbare hunde han.”

   zara socho: kee media vich naujavan mundya nu gair-zimmevar ja beitbare dikhauna sahi hai? tusi kive dikha sakde ho ki tusi ohna varge nahi ho?

   bible dassdi hai: “koi vi tainu naujavan hon karke aeve na samjhe. is di bajaye, vafadar sevka layi apni boli vich, chaal-chalan vich, pyaar vich, nehcha vich atey shudh rehen vich changi misal kaiyam kar.”​—1 timothius 4:12.

•   media tuhade te zabardast asar pa sakda hai. misal layi, media tuhanu mehsoos karaa sakda hai ki mashhoor hon layi tuhanu nave-nave fashion de kappde paune chaheede han. 17 saala da kolin kehnda hai: “mashhooriya vich dikhaya janda hai ki mundya nu keho jehe kappde paune chaheede han atey dikhaya janda hai ki munde kudiya naal ghire paye han. eh sabh dekh ke mundya da bazaar ja ke ohi kappde khareedan nu jee karda hai. mai vi kayi vaar idda keeta hai.”

   zara socho: kee tuhade kappdya to pata laggda hai ki tusi keho jehe insaan ho ja eh pata laggda hai ki tusi kise di nakal kar rahe ho? je tusi nave to nave fashion de kappde khareedde ho, taa is to kis nu faida hovega?

   bible dassdi hai: “is duniya de lokaa di nakal karni chhadd dyo.”​—romiya 12:2.

•   je tusi kise di nakal karde ho, taa kudiya ghatt hi tuhade vall khichiya jaangiya. jaano ki kujh janya ne kee keha:

  •  “mai os munde nu pasand nahi karangi jis nu apne aap te vishvas nahi hai atey jo doojya nu prabhavit karan di koshish karda hai, sago mai os munde nu pasand karangi jo kise di nakal nahi karda. jehrra munda hamesha doojya te prabhav paaun di koshish karda rehnda hai, lok os da mazaak udaunde han!”​—ana.

  •  “mashhooriya banaun vale lokaa nu eh ehsas karaunde han ki je oh kudiya da dhyaan khichna chahunde han, taa ohna kol naviya to naviya electronic cheeza honiya chaheediya han atey ohna nu kis tarha de kappde vagaira paune chaheede han. par jado kudiya vaddiya ho jandiya han, taa oh ihna cheeza nu nahi dekhdiya. is di bajaye, oh mundya de gunn dekhdiya han atey dekhdiya han ki oh lokaa naal kive pesh aaunde han. misal layi, kudiya ohna mundya nu pasand kardiya han jo imandar atey vafadar hunde han.”​—daniel.

  •  “aksar ‘vadiya dikhan vale munde’ ghamandi hunde han atey mai idda de kise munde naal dosti nahi karni chahundi. koi munda duniya da sabh to sohna munda ho sakda hai, par je os di seerat os di shakal naal mel nahi khandi, taa oh badsoorat hovega.”​—diana.

   zara socho: samuel bare bible kehndi hai ki oh “vadh-da gaya atey yahovah ar manukha de agge mannya parmannya si.” (1 samuel 2:26) is tarha di neknaami khattan layi tuhanu kehrre gunn paida karan di lorr hai?

   bible dassdi hai: “marda valiya khoobiya paida karo.”​—1 kurinthiya 16:13, footnote.

•   media vich dikhaye jande naujavana di nakal karan di bajaye sochan-samjhan di kabliyat varto. bible di is gall te gaur karo: “duniya vich jo kujh vi hai yani sareer di lalsa atey akkha di lalsa atey apni dhan-daulat te haisiyat da dikhava, eh sabh kujh pita to nahi, sago duniya to hai.”​—1 yuhanna 2:16.

   media ihna lalsava da faida chukkda hai atey ihna nu bahut sadharan tareeke naal pesh karda hai. so jo tusi dekhde ho, os bare dhyaan naal socho. media vich dikhaiya jaan valiya cheeza vapaariya de mann diya kadha hundiya jo bas paise kamaune chahunde han.

•   aap chon karo. bible kehndi hai: “nave subhaa nu nave kappde vang pehen lo yani sahi giaan lai ke apne subhaa nu parmeshwar de subhaa anusar nava banaunde raho jis ne is nu sirjya hai.”​—kulussiya 3:10.

   is salah nu mannan layi, zara is lekh de shuru vich ditte gunna bare socho jinha raahi tusi pachhane jana chahunde ho. kyo na hun to hi ohna gunna nu paida karan ja apne aap vich hor sudhar karan di koshish karo?

•   vadiya misala di rees karo. bible kehndi hai: “budhvana da sangi budhvan bann janda hai, par moorkha de saathi nu dukh hovega.” (kahauta 13:20) tusi apni zindagi vich kis aadmi nu dekhya hai jis ne dikhaya hai ki oh samajhdar hai? shayad oh tuhade parivar vich hon, jive tuhade daddy, chache, mame. tuhade samajhdar dost ho sakde han ja tuhadi jaan-pachhaan vich hor samajhdar aadmi ho sakde han jinha di tusi rees kar sakde ho. yahovah de gavaha diya mandliya vich bahut sare samajhdar aadmi han. bible vich bahut sariya vadiya misala han jis vich titus di misal vi shamal hai. os ne naujavana layi vadiya misal kaiyam keeti.​—titus 2:6-8.

   sujhaa: ohna di nehcha di rees karo kitab to bible vicho vadiya aadmiya diya misala to sikho jinha vich habal, nooh, abram, samuel, eliyah, yoonah, yusuf atey patras shamal han.